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10:15 p.m. - Thursday, Apr. 18, 2019 I have a couple of days off for Easter which I need. I don't want to waste the time but I didn't do much today. I was tired. I wanted to paint but I have just been studying Spanish which is really important too. I have got a private tutor now. It's €20 per hour but I have already improved after a couple of lessons. I think money is my biggest motivator. I don't want to spend so much and not see any results so I am really focused now. It's starting to click. Watched a great documentary last night on the Kuchar brothers. They were film makers and George taught at CalArts. He was Vinnie's teacher. What an amazing guy, a real sweetheart and made these hilarious lo-fi underground films which inspired John Waters. Looked like so much fun. Apparently he made over 400 films and Vinnie was in a couple of them. I'm jealous really. My uni was so uninspiring. I skyped Vinnie on Sunday and we had a conversation in bad Spanish which was in his words "dorky" but it's good practice without the pressure of talking to a native and I did learn a few words from him. He's made enquiries about moving but I don't think Vinnie will come to Spain. He said he would be throwing away so much. Looks like he won't be finding any real independence from his Dad any time soon. Shame really. See, now I want him to come coz he probably won't but if he said he was coming I would get quite worried. Haha. I'm impossible. I would do the Pareja de Hecho with him, which is the civil partnership. Far less formal than marriage and it has to be renewed every 5 years. It's casual. It would give him a temporary visa and allow him to stay the 5 years and then he could get a permanent one like I plan to. It's the easiest way an American can move here. But first you need a student visa or work visa. He says he can't find a suitable school. I don't know why he said that. I doubt he could hack being a teacher, he's probably a bit spoilt actually. Don't know what I saw in him. Uff. Just lonely. I still think I am destined to be with married man one day. I don't miss him but sometimes I have a little cry when I think about our connection and how happy he made me. He's far from perfect, though he told me he has cut down on his drinking a lot recently which is great news. I have this fear of him dying young and not being able to process the grief because I am his secret love and not being able to go to his funeral. It's mad really. I think I have to be with him for our senior years. When I am old. Say in 10 years.. I can see subtle signs of ageing now, skin slightly less tight especially on my arms and I was sure I had IBS, had really bad gas and bloating the last two weeks. Waking up in mild discomfort. Could just be dehydrated. I don't drink enough at work and it's so stuffy and hot in the office some days.
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